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It's not the most popular kid at school you have to be afraid of -- it's the SECOND most popular kid.

Scientists have proven what we all know to be true: As kids gain social status at school, they're more likely to become bullies.

"By and large, status increases aggression," sociologist Robert Faris of UC Davis, who led the study, told The Los Angeles Times.

Faris and a colleague studied 3,722 middle and high school students over the course of an academic year, and found that teens became more aggressive as they climbed the ranks of the cool crowd.

Aggressive behavior peaked when students hit the 98th percentile for popularity, suggesting they were bullying other kids in order to become even more popular.

But here's where it gets interesting: Students who were in the top two percent of a school's social hierarchy generally didn't harass their fellow students, proving the cliche of the kind-hearted class president.

Faris said kids at the highest rung of the social ladder can't really gain anything by being mean, and picking on others only made them seem insecure.

How true this is in ***** life, too: The truly confident people are the ones who are least likely to pick on others. Don't you agree?

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the most popular girls are the biggest ******
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i agree that u could be a bully and not realize but sometime its not always the popular kids
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In my school, yes.
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I'm not speaking about everyone, but it does make sense to me
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Maybe in USA but not in UK in my day. When I was bullied at school it was back in the late 50's / early 60's.
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No, it's usually the wannabees....
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Some popular kids are nice.
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i am a popular kid and i dont bully anyone.................thats just a stereotype popular kid bully stereotype stereotype
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you could be a bully and not realise it you also could only think your popular this is me speaking from experience this may not be the case for you but then again I do not know you so I can not say either way
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and I agree with that
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I was bullied myself by some of the populars in my homeroom! For many reasons like the way I dressed, who were my friends, and the fact that at the time Eminem was very popular and I refused to follow anyone by continuing to love the Backstreet Boys! This all happened from middle school to jr high and then High school in a new town. And it was always the ones that thought were perfect
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cool
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not when i went to school
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im not saying 100% yes but most of them are.. giving someone that power over others will makes even the good go bad..
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Not really. I was a highschool loser but talked to pretty much everyone in my highschool. The "in" crowd wasn't nice but they also never really went out of their way to pick on anyone.
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im beenin bullied right now but its okay cuz when i retaliate they wont see it comin i will get my respect my wish and my revenge and it will be a happy life afterwards beenin bullied cuz retaliate comin respect revenge happy life for all my haters
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You're kinda scary. Hope your school has a metal detector.
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THANX AND WEIRD TOO IM BLACK AND LISTENS TO ROCK AND LOVES PINK RED ROYAL BLUR BLACK AND WHITE LOVES SKULLS AND SKELETONS AND MIGHT BE A LIL CURIOUS ABOUT WITCHCRAFT AND MIGHT EVEN TRY IT
WAT DO U THINK BOUT THAT
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YES THEY DO HAVE THOSE AND CHECKS US VERY WELL WE CANT EVEN COME IN WITH CHIPS OF TEA EVEN IF WE'RE SICK
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not at my school I was bully and was not popular.
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In high school, we refereed to them as stuck up. It was primarily girls, but the jocks often did the same thing. It goes to their head. Kids can still get spoiled, even at 17.

school refereed stuck girls jocks head kids spoiled 17 bullies
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no because im one of the popular kids of my school and the leader of the popular group so... yeah
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of course like its always the popular ones cuz a girl at my school is popular and she cut up a pic of my dead dad mind u i said dead yepp i ****** punch her right in da nose then i threw he to the floor and kept punchin her got up kicked her in the face spit on her said " NOW WAT ***** " then walked away
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Popular girls are *******.
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Mainly yes, but also no. In my school (which is a british school) some of the "popular" girls are really ******, but also a lot of them are really nice, so it depends on the people I think, and not the movies
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Hollywood gets it wrong. There is always this one big mean bully in TV/movies. But in reality its a group or clique that does the bullying. I never understood how such a outdated archtype is still used now. It is the popular kids or the troublemaking kids that are the real bullies and they act in groups not lone wolf like in the movies/TV.
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perusing the responses i'm not sure anyone read the article.

this article is dead on at least in terms of ******. the folks that everyone loves don't feel the need to crap on anyone. the ones that want to be those folks well. . . .

i can't really use my high school as an example since i went to an exam school which means we were all a different level of geek ;)
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Yes they are. I'm a freshman in high school now but back in sixth grade I was barley able to walk. Both of my legs were hurting to the point I could barley walk and my limp was horrible because what could I do both legs were hurting so bad. So many people made fun of me because I could barley walk. I went home and cried a lot after that. I mean now I'm sticking up for myself more. I'm learning how to deal with it better and everything. Now I can walk but when I see these kids I notice them look at me and notice my change in weight I lost over 32 pounds in one summer and now I think about what they did and how bad I want to tell them off.
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I don't believe this is true. Back in my day, most of the bullies were not the popular or least popular. They were just annoying to everyone. I do believe that ****** who try to bully others lack confidence and are generally not happy. There were a couple of bullies at my previous job who I found very annoying.
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yes they are the mainly the girls who think they r the most popular are the meanest ones the guys prefer to just **** everyone off
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ITS THE ONES WHO ARE BULLIES FIRST THAT TURN INTO THE BIGGER BULLIES TO TAKE OUT THEIR FRUSTRATION
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me and my friends talk about kids and call them names:)
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"popular" at my school means the Cheer leaders, poms and Baseball and Basketball players. They're "popular" because they're group is literally the biggest. They have more numbers and more people on their "rank" to be friends with. You HAVE to know them because there is so many of them. Most of them are nice. But there's a ***** and ****** in every group, even the smallest.
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As of this vote there are 308 split 209 for yes and 99 no...

This tells me the popular to unpopular ratio has not changed in schools. Those 209 are the regular down trodden kids that always complained they weren't the other 99 kids...lol
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The popular kids seem to keep their "friends" attention by being a laugh and fun to be with, by making fun of people with degrading "jokes".
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I kind of have a mixed view on this. Yes, when a kid is popular, they believe they have to power to boss others around and make them feel bad about themselves and make them think that popular kid is better than them. However, at the same time, everyone can be a bully. I know some people that like to bully others to the point where the dean has to handle it, and they are no where near popular. I was never the bully.
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People are bullies cause they are..
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Bullies are only "popular" because they are loud, rude, and selfish. Pretty **** to ignore a pig. They are not popular because people LIKE them. Knock a few of them in the mouth, and suddenly people like YOU instead!!
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In my years as teaching i observed and counseled many ******** I found that the bullies tended to come from kids who were envious of those who WERE popular and every year was different and a couple of times this statement was true
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Yes-- Especially the girls!
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There's nothing wrong with being different. That wouldn't scare me at all. We're all "weird" in our own ways. It's the fact that you're 'plotting revenge' and talking about getting respect afterward, but you're worried 'what might happen to you' just reminds me of the crazy guy on Billy Madison who crosses Adam Sandler's billy character off his list of future murder victims. I think you should see a psychiatrist. I'm serious. Hurting someone won't solve your problems.
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