Wow... How can apologizing be a sign of weakness?? As a "Recovered Addict" making my amends to those I had wronged was one of the biggest steps I had to make in my recovery!! I had a lot of apologizing to do - but it has to be honest and from the heart! Almost all of my ex-wives forgave me and people I thought would never forgive me - for some of the things I've done - forgave me! Forgiving someone is also one of the kindest and purest things a person can do - no matter what the wrong was! If we don't forgive others it will eat at us forever and the person (or place, institution, etc.) we have a resentment for probably goes on with their life never thinking about us...! And forgiving doesn't necessarily mean we like it but I find that we must accept what has happened!
Craig