Question

Are you a constant complainer? If so, is it full-filling?

Answer 1

I complain on occasion.

Answer 2

I seem to fall in the last category. Lucky for me I had some ex girlfriends who went detail about all kinds of personal flaws lol. Oh well, take a lesson. I fixed up what I could and tried again :-).

Answer 3

Seems to me that those that worry the most about their own shortcomings are some of the strongest people I know.

The ones that really irritate me are the ones that can't see any of their own flaws and there is no shortage of those kinds of people.

Answer 4

That's a really unique and smart way of looking at it. Gives me some food for thought. Thank you Peapod, for that wonderful compliment. :)

Answer 5

My life experience my friend. We are very **** on ourselves. Those that are truly weak are not!

Answer 6

I guess it does take a certain toughness to see flaws and strive for improvement. I know it is not fun.

Answer 7

None of it is easy and you have been through a physical trauma that can really turn you upside down. Other than my youthful looks, you couldn't pay me to go back to being young. Age really does come with wisdom and a lot less anxiety.

Answer 8

Looking in the mirror is very ****,and correcting what you see is even ******. I hope so, and I wouldn't mind peace and stability thrown in the mix either.

Answer 9

You will get there. Remember, you have been through something and it takes time to heal. You will get stronger with each thing you survive. Your heart is already in the correct place.

Answer 10

I think life really becomes a beautiful thing when you can look back and see where you went wrong, what you were responsible for (and not), and see what you did to overcome it. I feel very lucky to have great insight on myself. Some of my greatest teachers were exes and people and experiences that were not so pleasant.

Answer 11

Hear Hear!

Answer 12

You are a wonderful friend, dru.

Answer 13

Yes he is. The best.

Answer 14

Oh to be like that, would be WONDERFUL!! :)

Answer 15

I think your heart is like that. Anyone that can appreciate those little things in life is pretty special IMHO.

Answer 16

Just to get my brain to follow is the **** part. But I am luckier than most, I have a really terrific support system.

Answer 17

Always.

Answer 18

"Silly old Bear." :)

Answer 19

Hahaha. Don't laugh, but I was sitting there with my other half watching Pooh just the other night. Since we got home from Disney, we sometimes put some of the sillier things from Netflix on late night. It really de-stresses us. We are both big kids at heart.

Answer 20

Then you know, the walk is not easy. Thank you for those kind words, my friend.

Answer 21

Been there and know what that is like. I think you are conscientious and caring.

Answer 22

No, I don't' think so. If I was would I know it?
You can often think of a simple way around a obstacle, and it's easier to move on than to raise a fuss over all he little things.

Answer 23

You will get no argument from me.

Answer 24

But I work for one that I am always tempted to ask if they want cheese with that.

Answer 25

While I do occasionally complain it solves nothing.

Answer 26

It is interesting, how I try to always be positive and not complain about my problems. I tend to be very bubbly and charming......however many people will ask how it is that I seemingly have no problems, some people even complain on my behalf, which is so weird!!!

Answer 27

I'm Satisfied With What I Have.....and What Have Happened to Me.....and Who I'm Today
*PROUD*

Answer 28

I have my moments..... but I don't like to complain

Answer 29

Me too. By no means an attractive trait.

Answer 30

Nope, not when it's all the time. Makes me want to slap some sense into them.

Answer 31

I'm not a 'chronic complainer' as I call it....lol

Answer 32

I have to watch myself, because of the depression, and being a half empty type of person. And NO it is not fulfilling by any means.

Answer 33

Definitely not!

Answer 34

I have my moments, but never on a constant basis. I know it would make my own life miserable and those around me miserable.

Remembering my blessings when I am really down is how I keep my glass at least "half full".

Answer 35

Think of it this way Peas. You have a glass half full of liquid (blessings) and a half full glass of air (hope).
You have a WHOLE glass full!
Ta Da!

Answer 36

Awww...you really are my hero.

Answer 37

It's all how we perceive things....

smilez

Answer 38

Indeed. Only we can make ourselves "happy".

Answer 39

Only liberals and socialists ****** I'm complaining. Telling the truth, with substantive facts to back you up is not "complaining" - it's acknowledging our reality. If you leftists hates hearing about it so much, stop putting economy-destroying Marxists in the White House and Congress. Problem solved! See!!! No complaining!

Answer 40

Is that your final answer?

Answer 41

Nothing better to unwind than to be a kid again. It reminds us all of simpler times passed.