“There are NEVER diaper changing stations in mens public restrooms,” he wrote. “The first public men’s room that I go into that has one gets a free shout out on my FB page! #BeTheChange.”
This was probably the first time — but hopefully not the last — that Mahatma Gandhi’s famous words, “You must be the change that you wish to see in the world” have been employed as both a diaper pun and a call to action.
As of press time, Kutcher’s post had generated 241,000 likes and more than 12,000 shares and stirred lively conversation among his fans, with people chiming in with helpful tips like, “The Chatterbox restaurant in Linden Hills, Minneapolis MN one!” “Ruby Tuesdays has them!” and “A lot of places in Massachusetts have them!”
While a few trolls grumbled things like, “I see them everywhere moron,” and “*****? Family bathrooms!” most of his Facebook fans seemed happy he’d brought up the issue.
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There are NEVER diaper changing stations in mens public restrooms. The first public men's room that I go into that has one gets a free shout out on my FB page! #BeTheChange
While it’s definitely not the most glamorous issue to be addressing (but then again, what aspect of parenting is?), Kutcher is absolutely right.
While family-friendly amenities seem to vary by location (with famously progressive cities like Austin and Portland cited high on the list), family restrooms can be rare. And if many men’s rooms aren’t equipped for involved dads to #bethechange, many women’s rooms aren’t, either. (I was surprised to notice the other day that my local YMCA, which has a full program of toddler activities and its own preschool, does not have one in their women’s locker room.)
As enthusiastic father involvement becomes more the norm (or at least, the expectation) than the 1950s exception, men are noticing what many mothers have known for a long time: In the US, family-friendly amenities are often treated as afterthoughts rather than as visible signs of a healthy, forward-thinking society. (For more on that, visit your local Swedish-owned IKEA and check out their family restrooms, veritable diaper-changing palaces equipped not only with changing tables but with free wipes and diapers!)