A friends spouse is cheating on them, do you tell your friend. Yes or No?

Question

Doubtful.

Answer 1

i'd be more likely to set up a scenario that would make it possible for my friend to figure it out.. Or take cell phone photos if i caught them of something with the cheaters by accident in the photo

Answer 2

The only exception would be if he was a player too. Then they can have themselves.

Answer 3

I would drop hints like crazy though.

Answer 4

It's best to stay out of those situations unless you can call the Cheaters tv show.

Answer 5

stay out of it. its none of any ones bussniess. chances they know or have a feeling

Answer 6

Not without proof.
But I might leave an anonymous note tipping her off about what to suspect or to inspect.

Answer 7

Depends on several things: HOW CERTAIN you are, how close you are to the couple and how you found out!

Answer 8

It would depend on whether I think he'd want me to do so.

Answer 9

No, it is actually none of your business.

Answer 10

I've gotten in the center of that before with a close friend and it was **** and she turned on me awhile, she was so blind to her spouse, but we came together again to rebuild our friendship from the ground up after he did it more times to her and she got courage to leave him. I won't do that again unless it's something that is very dangerous where she or her ******** could be in harm's way, then yeah, you bet I would!

Answer 11

Your friend probably already suspects something is going on. Stay out of it or you may lose your friend in the process.

Answer 12

It's actually none of my business,I don't want to get caught up in their personal life..she'll find out for herself soon enough..

Answer 13

I mind my own business. He will find out sooner or later on his own.

Answer 14

I would confront the one doing the cheating

Answer 15

Depends. If it were a close friend, definitely. If it is a casual friendship, prob not.

Answer 16

My oldest daughter had an affair. I informed my son in law for a myriad of reasons. Call me what you will, this was NOT an easy decision, but it was a necessary one. She was engaged in destructive behavior (common for bi polar people) and needed professional help.

Answer 17

They deserve to know, plus I could prevent him/her from getting a STD! (Even with protection it can happen)

Answer 18

If it were a good friend I would tip them off. Personally, I would want to know.

Answer 19

No, usually a person knows.

Answer 20

Just get out the way . You do not know what there relationship is about. I do not like to give bad news.

Answer 21

Yes

Answer 22

I wish more people would have made me aware of what my ex-wife was up to........I will never know everything, but I certainly know enough.

Answer 23

If I was sure of it. That hug could be a brother or cousin or an old friend. If it was just a friendly acquaintance I would stay out of it.

Answer 24

Ignorance isn't bliss, and whoever thinks it is needs to, well, stop being ignorant.

Answer 25

In a heartbeat..And I expect for my friends to return the favor if they ever catch my partner cheating on me.. Some people say that ignorance is a bliss.. well not me!!

Answer 26

Everyone has the right to know

Answer 27

I warned a friend once that his wife made a pass at me. He was not happy and wouldn't talk to me for a while. They got a divorce a year later when he found out she was being passed around by her boss and she liked it...turns out I was right.

But I lost a good friend for life...better to have let it go.

Answer 28

yes...unless your the one the spouse is cheating on

Answer 29

A friend?? Yes.
A friends spouse? No

Answer 30

I caught my ex-wife at it more than once. I still don't know the whole story and never will...I'm well shed of her.

Answer 31

It would depend on the situation. Most likely, I would drop hints and try to get them to figure it out on their own.

Answer 32

As soon as its is clear they are comfortable in lying to you its over. If only I knew then what I know now.......a story as old as time itself.

Answer 33

often than not, they shoot the messenger but in the long run you'd be happy you did whether or not the outcome goes in your favor because you know you've done the right thing. It caused a huge rift between my sister & I but we finally got back to a good place.

Answer 34

I will help my friend but with proof and you already know:
"Honesty is best policy"
and see the snake its movement is very curve but it enters straight to it's home.
Never cheat with your spouse

Answer 35

Loyalty. It's very appreciated.

Answer 36

Why would I keep it a secret. I'd want my friend to tell me if she thinks my partner is cheating on me.

Answer 37

only with evidence

Answer 38

Are they cheating on them with you

Answer 39

But ONLY if they were really a friend, not just an acquaintance ... and only if I were *absolutely* certain. In either event, I may very well lose a dear friend.