Oh, reproductive freedom is certainly a possibility. Two of my dearest friends in the world have 23 children between them (one had 12, one had 11). They happen to be two of the most mentally, spiritually, and emotionally healthy people I know, and their children are amazing, happy people.
I do know a few women, however, who seem to tie their entire sense of self worth on how many children they can have. I think the danger is from pinning your entire self-concept on one external thing, whether it's having babies, being ultra-competitive at work, or your golf score, etc.